Showing posts with label mentoring. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mentoring. Show all posts

Thursday, October 10, 2013

If you want to make a difference, spend time with a child

Last week, my seven-year-old daughter walked up to me and asked for a pocket-knife lesson.  As you can imagine, I was shocked.  I thought, "My daughter wants a knife lesson?"  The more I thought about it, my thoughts went from "What?" to "Cool!"  You should have seen us in just a few minutes.  There we were sitting on the deck whittling away on sticks.  She had a smile a mile wide, and so did I.  When I told her that we were whittling, she thought I said, "Fiddling."  She said, "Dad, I love to fiddle!"

The past few days I've spent with my ten-year-old nephew who is visiting while on a school break.  We have hunted, fished, played basketball, laughed, and wrestled.  It's a wonder we haven't broken anything. There have probably been times this week that my wife has been glad we have all girls - too much testosterone around the house this week.  Words fail me to explain the feeling I had watching him put a worm on his hook for the first time, reeling in a fish, and learning to filet the fish for supper.  As we ate those bluegill he said, "This is the best fish ever."  The glow of wonder and awe that has beamed from his eyes have reminded me of the little blessings I too often take for granted.

God keeps impressing on my heart the incredible impact that one person can have on another if they will just spend a few minutes with them.  This is no more clearly seen than